Sean Padden, the general manager of Husker football, shares an entertaining anecdote about the moment he realized that Matt Rhule was destined for significant success in coaching.

The defining moment doesn’t always occur within the confines of a massive stadium. Sometimes, it unfolds in more humble settings, like Papa Playground in a grade-school gym near Cobbs Creek Park in Philadelphia.

Sean Padden, coaching the West Philly Tar Heels, a youth football team in the inner city, found himself in such a setting. The team was hosting a banquet, a casual affair with supportive families enjoying a fish fry.

Reflecting on the experience, Padden remarked, “I went from coaching a kid who made it to the NFL to coaching 5- and 6-year-olds, but it was really enjoyable, and we needed a speaker for our banquet.”

Padden reached out to Matt Rhule, who was coaching at Temple at the time, asking if he could come by and speak to the kids and families at the banquet. They had previously worked together at Albright College in Pennsylvania, both starting their coaching careers there.

Though it might have been unexpected for even a friend to agree to such a request, Rhule did not disappoint. He not only agreed to come but also delivered an unforgettable speech.

“He absolutely captivated the audience. I was amazed. He was not just my friend; he was a fantastic football coach, and he took charge of the room like I had never seen before,” Padden recalled. “I was in awe. I couldn’t believe it. I immediately texted our mutual friend Geoff Collins, saying, ‘Rhule just blew everyone away. Unbelievable.’ And Geoff’s response was, ‘Yeah, your buddy can really command a room.'”

Padden recounted this story to illustrate the moment when he recognized that Rhule possessed the necessary “it” factor—the intangible quality that suggests someone is destined for greater things. For Rhule, this meant progressing to coaching in the NFL and now leading the Nebraska football team, where Padden serves as the general manager.

“I knew he was a talented, up-and-coming coach. A friend,” Padden explained. “But witnessing his ability to command a room like that was truly eye-opening for me. That’s when I realized, ‘Oh, wow, this guy has something special.'”

Padden emphasized that the Rhule seen by Husker fans and the media during press conferences is consistent with the person he knows behind the scenes.

“Yeah, there’s no difference. He’s the same guy.”